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Daily Reflections · November 21

A Classic Prayer

Bill W. gave beginners this prayer without naming its saint, but Francis of Assisi was already part of AA’s story: in how it kept itself poor, in a medal, and among the candles Bill counted in 1952.

Today’s reading

The reading for November 21 in Daily Reflections, AA’s book of short readings by members. Its passage comes from Twelve Steps and Twelve Traditions, page 99: the prayer Bill W. gives beginners to meditate on, three pages into his essay on Step Eleven. November 6 follows that prayer from Paris in 1912 to Bill’s memorial.

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Themes and asks

  1. The giving end

    The passage asks to be the one who brings what’s missing, and to want that more than having it brought to you.

    • Where are you waiting for someone else to go first: to understand you, to forgive you, to reach out?
    • What would it look like to go first with them today?
  2. Nothing to pin down

    For the member who wrote the reflection, not having to pin down their Higher Power is a freedom, not a gap.

    • What do you still feel you have to work out about God before you can pray honestly?
    • What would change if you prayed today with that question still open?
  3. Keeping at it

    The member puts their trust in steady practice of Step Eleven, more than in having things figured out.

    • What does your practice of Step Eleven look like on an ordinary day, honestly?
    • What would keeping at it look like this week, even on days when nothing seems to happen?
  4. Owning less

    Read beside Behind the words, Bill credited the saint with more than a prayer: with the idea of keeping AA poor, and with sending honors to the whole fellowship rather than to the people who started it.

    • What are you holding on to (money, credit, a position) that mostly gives you something to guard?
    • Where could you let the credit go to the group instead of to you?

Behind the words

A candle for AA

Today’s passage is the prayer itself. Bill W. set it three pages into his essay on Step Eleven in the Twelve and Twelve, AA’s 1953 book of essays on the Steps and Traditions, for beginners to meditate on, and chose it as “one that is a classic.” The essay never names its author. It calls him a man long counted a saint, no alcoholic but one who had been through “the emotional wringer,” and later “our friend.” The saint was Francis of Assisi, and the prayer wasn’t his (November 6 tells where it came from). But by 1953 Francis had been in AA’s story for years.

Looking back in Alcoholics Anonymous Comes of Age, in 1957, Bill wrote that when the early members argued over how much money the work would need, the saint’s thinking counted for a great deal. His movement, too, had begun among lay people, “one man carrying the good news to the next,” and he had wanted the whole society poor, not just each member, so there would be less to quarrel over and less to pull them from their purpose. AA followed him into what Bill called corporate poverty.

In December 1949 the College of Steubenville, in Ohio, gave the first of its yearly Poverello Medals to AA. The medal took its name from the saint’s old nickname, il poverello: the little poor man. Sister Ignatia, the Akron nun who had worked beside Dr. Bob, accepted it on AA’s behalf. Bill took no part, and her biographer suggests he kept his distance from the honor, perhaps because Catholics were giving it. Whatever he made of the medal, a letter he wrote the next month shows the saint was on his mind. Markings, the newsletter of AA’s archives, quotes it as Bill’s answer to the first award Franciscans gave AA, which by its date was the medal. Honoring the fellowship rather than its founders set a helpful precedent, he wrote in January 1950, and the idea had come from Francis, whose example, he wrote, had “done so much for me and for A.A.”

On the last afternoon of the second General Service Conference, in April 1952, Bill gave the delegates a benediction, as the Grapevine reported it that June. He went through the people who had lit candles for AA, from Dr. Carl Jung in Zurich to those who carried the message in print, with William James among them. Between Sister Ignatia and James came Francis, who for holding to corporate poverty “had lit a candle for AA.” Then, borrowing from the Twenty-third Psalm, Bill looked back to the summer of 1934, when, as he told it, all was ready for AA except the alcoholics it was for.

At St. Louis in 1955, closing his part of a session by reciting the prayer, Bill called its saint one whose example was “so near and so dear to us all.” In 1967 Franciscans gave AA a second award, the Franciscan Award, which Markings said in 2004 was on display in the archives at AA’s General Service Office in New York.

More on AA and money: The basket, in Keep Coming Back. On the medal, and why Sister Ignatia wanted no honors: No professional job, in Your Size in Pajamas. On the prayer’s own path: November 6.

Who lit a candle

The people Bill W. pointed to in his benediction of April 1952, in his order, as the Grapevine reported it; some he described without naming. From Father Ed on he said of each that they lit a candle for AA; the three before them begin the same story. The short lines are this page’s, and each leads to more.

  1. Dr. Carl Jung

    The psychiatrist in Zurich who told a patient only a spiritual experience could save him. Bill counted him among AA’s founders, though Jung didn’t know it.

    The dope for me, in Court of Last Resort

  2. Rowland H.

    Jung’s patient, whom Bill didn’t name. Sober in the Oxford Group, he helped keep a friend out of an asylum.

    Court of Last Resort

  3. Ebby T.

    That friend, who first brought Bill the message.

    My Sponsor, Ebby

  4. Father Ed Dowling

    A Jesuit priest in St. Louis, then known to few.

    Stuff of the saints, in Some Bum from St. Louis

  5. Sister Ignatia

    The nun in Akron who worked beside Dr. Bob.

    Your Size in Pajamas

  6. Francis of AssisiToday

    For holding to corporate poverty.

  7. William James

    For The Varieties of Religious Experience, and its deep influence on AA’s first members.

    The book Ebby brought, in The Educational Variety

  8. The couriers

    Harry Emerson Fosdick, Fulton Oursler of Liberty, Jack Alexander and the owner of the Saturday Evening Post, who carried the message in print.

    A Bunch of Actors

Threads

Each one opens the calendar with its days lit up.

Sources
  • Twelve Steps and Twelve Traditions. AA Grapevine and Alcoholics Anonymous Publishing, 1953. The essay on Step Eleven (the reading cites page 99).
  • Alcoholics Anonymous Comes of Age. Alcoholics Anonymous Publishing, 1957. “Unity: The Second Legacy” (Francis and corporate poverty) and “Religion Looks at Alcoholics Anonymous” (Bill W. reciting the prayer at St. Louis, 1955).
  • Mary C. Darrah, Sister Ignatia: Angel of Alcoholics Anonymous. Loyola University Press, 1992. Chapter 4, “Akron’s Magic Blend” (the Poverello Medal).
  • Christian Renoux, “The Origin of the Peace Prayer of St. Francis,” The Franciscan Archive. For the prayer’s origin. His book on the question is La prière pour la paix attribuée à saint François: une énigme à résoudre (Éditions franciscaines, 2001).
  • Markings, May–June 2004, “The Clergy and Alcoholics Anonymous” (aa.org).
  • Bill W., “A Benediction from Bill.” AA Grapevine, June 1952, in its report on the General Service Conference of April 1952 (scan at silkworth.net).
  • Daily Reflections. AA World Services, 1990. November 21 · aa.org

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Daily Reflections is AA’s book of readings for every day of the year, each written by a member about a favorite passage from AA’s literature. A Daily Reprieve gives each day questions to sit with and the story behind its words.